Thursday, December 17, 2015

An Open Letter to Mark Zuckerberg

I sent the following letter to Mark Zuckerberg, fully realizing that he is unlikely to ever see this, even if he has staff members who check his mail and messages, so I decided to post what I had written on my own blog. I am hopeful that whoever reads this will share my url/link with others on Facebook and other social media, and that it will be passed on to more and more people, eventually gaining some notice. I'm sure this also stands a good chance of gaining attention and threats from those who would love nothing more than to see another Jew (and family) killed -- in fact, as many Jews as possible -- along with Christians, Buddhists, Hindus, and adherents of any religion other than Islam, with the exception of those who dare practice it in any other way except as they see fit. It is a risk I am willing to take. It is a risk that all good people of conscience should take. Why? Because, as the saying goes, "I would rather die on my feet, than live on my knees." There are times when doing nothing is far more detrimental than doing something. We are living in one of those times. The second worse thing you can do is doubt this.


Mark, I have no idea if this message will reach you or not, or whether you have the time (or inclination) to check your messages either personally or through an associate, but I find it extremely distressing that you have vowed to make Facebook a "safe space" for Muslims, but have failed repeatedly to give the same consideration to Jews. 

The fact that you are Jewish is not my issue; my issue is that when reporting anti-Jewish groups and posts, every single individual I know (along with myself) has received back messages claiming that the group or post does not violate community guidelines. In my case, it was a group that promoted the myth of Jewish ritual murder, including the time-honored story that Jews kill non-Jewish children by draining their blood for use in the making of matzo. It seems anti-Jewish groups and posts don't violate community guidelines, but speaking the truth about how so-called Palestinians have continued to perpetrate the greatest hoax of all, and that Europe WILL, in fact fall, and that America -- finding itself with no allies -- will eventually fall as well, is considered hate speech against the Muslims who spread terror like wildfire, and that this automatically merits all Muslims a "safe space." That Facebook has proved to be among the greatest social media weapons in the Jihadi arsenal seems to evade you. Clearly, you aren't ignorant; after all, how else did you get to where you are and all that you've accomplished? My guess is that you are afraid. You're afraid of what's going on out there and are kowtowing to these monsters with promises of protection in the hopes that they will somehow skip over you and your family if and when the time comes. Jews in Germany felt the same way; that if they "made nice" and ignored how they were being treated beginning way before the rise of Hitler, that they would be safe. And we all know how THAT turned out, don't we?

You're also afraid of speaking out in defense of Israel, because that would make you a (shudder!) Zionist -- and there's nothing in the world worse than that. The fact that Muslims by the millions have been murdered by fellow Muslims in all these Muslim countries (not to mention those pesky Christians; Jews who managed to survive were, by and large, expelled from these countries in excess of 800,000, and I'm being conservative) is not a topic to be discussed in so-called civilized circles. In fact, calling these countries what they are -- MUSLIM countries -- is considered a lie, because then Israel will not stand out as allegedly being the only country with religion as its founding principal, even though people of other religions live there, and openly practice their religions, as well. Tell me, what other country in the middle east do you know of that allows this? One, and one only -- Bahrain. Even a business center country like Dubai that allows in outsiders, doesn't allow in their temples, churches, and certainly not their synagogues. It allows in outsiders strictly for the benefit of profit. Which sounds, strangely enough, just like you.

Frankly, as much as money speaks, I don't even know that a boycott of Facebook, with hundreds of thousands shutting down and causing you a huge loss of revenue, would even move you. Still, I have no problem doing so, and it's my hope that others will consider doing the same. The only thing you can do at this point is the right thing. It's called speaking out, and taking action against, hatred of all kinds -- not just against those of whom you are so clearly afraid, along with the desire to be seen as a "good Jew", and by the wrong people. 

Just grow a pair.

Thursday, November 12, 2015

To P.T. Barnum: Wish You Were Here

A profound and thought-provoking piece has been making the rounds on Facebook and other social media sites for a while now, BUT IT DID NOT ORIGINATE WITH THE DALAI LAMA. There is no denying that the Dalai Lama is an amazing, brilliant, and compassionate man. Still, I believe in giving credit to whom it is due, and it isn't due him.

That it has been attributed to a man born in 1923 named John James (Jim) Brown -- pen name James J. Lachard -- and is said to be part of a piece he wrote, An Interview with God, is also not entirely confirmed, as it was never actually published by him. But at least there are some clues.

The piece was allegedly found by a woman named Reata Strickland, who supposedly posted it in an online Alabama church bulletin in 2001, never claiming to be the writer. She did, though, have it published a year later, but with her name as editor. The piece ended up making its way around the internet, and as the internet is sadly filled with idiots who have nothing better to do with their time than (at their least) attribute actual quotes to people who had nothing to do with them, and at their finest, pass around miraculous "cures" involving cinnamon and honey for everything from ear infections to cancer, these words ended up superimposed on a photo of the Dalai Lama -- and if it's on the internet, then of course it must be true. Even worse, is that these hoaxters (big success stories!) rely on those who don't check facts to perpetuate these myths, and all I can say is that P.T. Barnum sure had it right. And if you were born in this country and still don't understand what I just said about P.T. Barnum, then you're truly a sad case of the stupids. 

In the early 2000s, three former colleagues (from the mid-80s) stopped speaking to me, because one of them -- a journalist and published author of children's books, mind you -- kept emailing hoaxes to a bunch of people to warn them of any number of things, and believe me, even then all it took was a relatively quick search to find out that these were hoaxes. (She also regularly included me in group emails to participate in prayer chains involving Jesus and saints, knowing very well that I'm Jewish.) The only reason I say "relatively" about doing a quick search is because of the load time back in the day of 64-bit processors, and a lot of people even still had 32s. Why did they all stop speaking to me? Because I responded (to all) that not only was the Klingerman Virus a hoax (if you receive an envelope with a small blue sponge in it, RUN!), but that it didn't take much to find this out before forwarding it, and that a journalist -- of all people -- should know this. Oh, and please stop sending emails to me asking me to pray to Jesus, because I wouldn't send emails to you or any non-Jew requesting that you fast on Yom Kippur.

Being shunned after that -- by people I truly loved and cared about, just because I pointed out that it was a hoax and not only easily checked out, but surprising that it wasn't especially from a journalist -- sent me into a spiral of depression that was probably the second worse I ever suffered. Even after I got help for it, the hurt remained. It took a long time before I became at peace with it; in fact, it took well into the Facebook years until I started seeing this kind of nonsense perpetuated on a daily basis, and thousands-fold. I still try to be diplomatic when pointing these things out to people I know who repost them, but I am starting to feel less compelled to even bother as time goes on (really, where did it ever get me, anyway?) Instead, I figured I may as well air my grievances on my own blog -- after a two-and-a-half year absence! -- despite the fact that Festivus is still a good month away. 

Here is the piece in its alleged entirety, or at least as best as I was able to find. Both line and paragraph breaks may not be true to the original. That is, if there is an actual, documented original somewhere out there. Whatever the case may be, I'm glad I came across this even in its abbreviated, erroneously-attributed form, because it led me to an even deeper truth than the truth of by whom it was authored, although the latter still is of great importance.

An Interview with God

“Come in,” God said. “So you would like to interview me?”

“If You have the time,”  I said.

God smiled. “My time is eternity. That’s enough time to do everything. What questions do you have in mind?”

“What surprises you most about mankind?”

“Many things...
 That they get bored of being children, are in a rush to grow up,
 and then long to be children again.   
That they lose their health to make money and then lose their money to restore health.

That by thinking anxiously about the future, they forget the present, and live neither for the present nor for the future.

That they live as if they will never die, and die as if they had never lived.”

God took my hands in His. We were silent for a while, then I asked,
“As a parent, what are some of life’s lessons You want Your children to learn?”

God replied with a smile.
“To learn that they cannot make anyone love them.
They can only let themselves be loved.

To learn that what is most valuable is not what they have
in their lives, but who they have in their lives.

To learn that it is not good to compare themselves to others.
All will be judged individually on their own merits,
not as a group on a comparison basis.

To learn that a rich person is not the one who has the most,
but is one who needs the least.

To learn that it takes only a few seconds to open profound wounds
in persons they love and many years to heal them.

To learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness.

To learn there are persons who love them dearly, but simply do not
know how to express or show their feelings.

To learn that money can buy everything but happiness.

To understand that two people can look at the same thing,
and see it totally differently.

To appreciate that a true friend is someone who knows everything
about them, and likes them anyway.

To learn that it is not always enough that they be forgiven by others,
but that they have to forgive themselves.”

I sat there for a while enjoying the moment. I thanked God for this time and for all that He has done for me and my family.

Then God replied, “Anytime. I’m here twenty-four hours a day. All you have to do is ask and I’ll answer. 

People will forget what you said.
People will forget what you did.
But people will never forget how you made them feel.”

-- attributed to James J. Lachard (Jim Brown)